Coaching for Couples

For most people, relationships, intimacy and sexuality are the most challenging arenas in life.  No one should have to navigate this terrain alone. 

Tobin is a true master when it comes to working with couples.  He has lovingly been nick-named the “couple’s whisperer.” 

Tobin has the uncanny ability to understand and translate the true underlying message in any communication.  He can help you to get to the root of any issue and reveal its gift.

 For those ready to take the journey, he offers deep clarity and a true path forward… a path that leads to authentic intimacy, ever-deepening love, and a life filled with embodied passion.

“Tobin, you are a f#*%ing genius when it comes to the feminine consciousness!! You saved my relationship.”

Gary T.

“Many blessings and heartfelt THANKS for helping make our wedding day and the beginnings of our marriage so perfect! I’m not sure I can ever express all you’ve done in helping to show us ourselves and our path together. We look forward to continued celebrations and gratitude with you in the years to come!”

Heather and Alan F.

“Tobin has a generosity of spirit and sincerity that is rare to come by… He has truly mastered the art of working with couples.

His ability to see into the heart of things and bring clarity and awareness to the immense complexities of the human psyche and relationship is extraordinary. He not only brings immense knowledge and skill, but profound presence and heart. I highly recommend Tobin for any person or couple wanting to experience more fullness and life in self or with another.”

Emily A.

“When our marriage hit a particularly rough spot, Tobin helped us navigate through some pretty frightening terrain. His remarkable ability to listen, comprehend and occasionally translate our jumbled thoughts and feelings into coherent ideas was essential in re-opening the lines of communication between us. With his guidance, we both realized that we had to work on ourselves as individuals before we could tackle the challenges we faced as a couple.

Through it all, Tobin has been our ally ~ an engaged, caring third party who has given us specific, tangible tools that we use on a regular basis. With his help, a dose of humor and a lot of work, we’ve come out the other side, more secure in ourselves and much stronger in our relationship.”

Chris & Jill P.

“Thanks for all your wisdom and support during this process! Your guidance and and advice really helped me make the mental and emotional transition to married life. The marriage ceremony you facilitated was deeply meaningful and is still sinking in.”

Chris A.

“Tobin is a truly gifted couples counselor. He always demonstrates wisdom and insights into relationship issues in a way that makes one feel like he’s dealt with our very own challenges so many times before. 

Just when I think I’ve seen all of his ‘bag of tricks,’ he shows a whole other level of skills and mastery with couples. Today, in our session, I had this thought: ‘This f#*%er is awfully young to be this wise!!’”

Murray S.

“Tobin has truly mastered the art of working with couples… He has a generosity of spirit and sincerity that is rare to come by.

His ability to see into the heart of things and bring clarity and awareness to the immense complexities of the human psyche and relationship is extraordinary. He not only brings immense knowledge and skill, but profound presence and heart.”

Emily A.

“Tobin is the best couples’ counselor on the planet!”

Wendy T.

“I’m not sure I can ever express all you’ve done in helping to show us ourselves and our path together. Many blessings and heartfelt THANKS for helping make our wedding day and the beginnings of our marriage so perfect!”

Heather and Alan F.

“Working with Tobin has been life changing. We left our session with him feeling a love that we had never felt before… feeling so grateful!”

Juna M.

To reach Tobin directly, call (415) 283-8925